24. Sep, 2020

Stop Becoming Annoyed By Stop Annoying Other People!

UETPs definition of personality is a combination of traits that display distinctive behaviour.

The purpose of our version of inter-personal skills awareness training is to teach ~ in simple terms ~ how to understand how others want you to behave with them, which commences with you understanding how you behave.

Get it right more often than not and you will have an even more rewarding life at home, at work and at play. Get it wrong more often than not … you go figure!

Stop & Think

Just for a moment, think of the customers and colleagues in the work you do. Or, think about the other members in the career you are pursuing. Or, the customer’s and employees in the business you run. Even, think about your situation if you have temporarily lost your income through redundancy or the global pandemic.

Whatever your circumstances, have you told yourself, “Just another 10, 20, 30 years to go!” “If I can only make enough money.” “When I retire I can do what I want to do”.

This ancient mis-truth justifies paying your bills today but delays the person you could become. These rational-lies persuade you why you keep doing the things you don’t really want to do or for being the kind of boss you’d rather not be. 

And if you doubt it, take a look at the latest Forbes report that confirms ~ yet again ~ a decades old statistic that 7-out-of-10 people hate what they do for a living!

Who Makes Your Decisions?

You don't need to be a rocket scientist to understand that you make your own decisions, or you allow others to decide for you. Your choice in the matter determines the jobs you will take and the money you will earn. But isn’t life too short to be or to do the things you know are not right for you? Do I hear you say, “But I do what I do for my family.”

Just 1000 Months!

Look at it this way. Anyone born in the West since 1990 has a projected lifespan of about 84 years ~ or 1000 months!

In the first 200-300 months of your life you were a pre-schooler, then at school, and maybe further education. The next 500 months you will spend in a job, or in a career, or running a successful business (if you’re very lucky).

That leaves just 200 months of your life to do what you really want to do; assuming that is, you are fit and healthy enough to enjoy the ‘fruits of your labours’. Sorry if this truth hurts!


The greatest chance of you choosing to do what you really want to do with your life rests on your ability to get on with more people, more often than not.

As the poet said, "Today is the first day of the rest of your life".

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Complicated IS Easy! Simple IS Hard!